If you’re looking to spice up your reading list and explore a whole new side of literature, you can’t go wrong with a few books about sex. With so many different titles to choose from, though, it can be hard to know where to start. To make things easier, here is a rundown of the best sex books to add to your TBR (to be read) pile. From classics to newer releases, a good sex book can open up an interesting and surprisingly sensitive new side of literature.
The Joy of Sex
First on the list is the classic, The Joy of Sex. Written by Dr. Alex Comfort, this book is a true classic that has been enjoyed since the 1970s. Dedicated to helping readers explore the joyful and sensory benefits of sex, The Joy of Sex provides practical advice and information in an entertaining and humorous style. Despite its age, the book still holds up as one of the best sex books available, offering a frank and beautiful look at sex in a way that encourages reader to explore their own thoughts and emotions.
The Ethical Slut
No list of the best sex books would be complete without The Ethical Slut. Published in 1997 and written by Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt, The Ethical Slut is an essential guide to creating relationships that value openness, communication and mutual respect. This book is an invaluable resource for exploring ethical non-monogamy, alternative relationship structures and the joys and complexities of consent-based relationships. With an open-minded approach and a frank and honest tone, The Ethical Slut is a must-read for anyone considering or engaged in an unconventional relationship.
Little Birds: Erotic Stories
Next up is Little Birds: Erotic Stories by Anais Nin. This collection of short stories is a true classic from one of the masters of erotic literature, and it remains a highly influential work even decades after its initial publication. Drawing from a blend of dream-like fantasy and down-to-earth sensuality, this collection of erotic stories is both beguiling and captivating, stirring the imagination and inspiring readers to explore the heights of pleasure.
Real Sex: The Naked Truth About Chastity
Real Sex: The Naked Truth About Chastity, is a groundbreaking book by Lauren Winner and Dr. Heather Corinna. This book takes a candid look at sex, exploring the choices and questions that arise both within and without the context of Christian faith. Taking on topics like abstinence, contraception, queer relationships and more, this book provides an honest and empathetic approach to understanding sex and sexuality. It’s a great book for both religious and non-religious readers alike, as it offers a respectful perspective on how to approach sex.
She Comes First
For those looking to deepen their knowledge of sex and explore pleasure from a man’s perspective, She Comes First by Ian Kerner is an excellent choice. This fun, informative and “highly titillating” book (according to The New York Times) guides readers through an exploration of female pleasure and arousal, with sections focused on anatomy, the psychology of sex, and the importance of communication during sex. Through a combination of storytelling, advice and information, She Comes First will help you become an even better lover.
The Joy of Gay Sex
The Joy of Gay Sex by Charles Silverstein and Edmund White is a must-read for anyone interested in learning and exploring the world of gay intimacy and sexuality. This book is an invaluable resource that covers a variety of topics, including coming out and making relationships work, as well as exploring pleasure both alone and with a partner. As an added bonus, the book is also filled with practical advice, including tips on relationships, health and communication.
The Joy of Kink
The Joy of Kink is another great book to add to your TBR pile. Written by author, sex educator and activist Midori, The Joy of Kink provides an in-depth exploration of BDSM, covering an array of topics from safety, to choosing a partner and even exploring the beauty of kink. This book is essential for anyone looking to expand their understanding of kink and BDSM, providing detailed and thoughtful guidance on exploring the joys of consensual power exchange.
There’s no doubt that sex can be a fascinating and deeply rewarding topic, and these books are a great way to explore the various aspects of it. From classics like The Joy of Sex, to modern releases like The Joy of Kink, there’s something for everyone in these books. Whether you’re exploring sex for the first time or looking to gain a deeper understanding of it, these books are sure to spice up your reading list.
